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Signs of male adultery
If the husband is faithful to you, there is something to thank him for. As studies show, faithful husbands today are rare specimens. Although three of the four women suggest that their husbands are faithful to them and only one suspects treason ...
Statistics show that three out of four men (!) Cheat on their wives! And two-thirds of deceived women do not even suspect that the husband has an intrigue on the side. And this despite the fact that all the signs of treason seem to be there ...
Every year, many women are horrified to learn that the faithful, as they always thought, husband wants a divorce, or that he simply meets another. Others are stunned by empty bank accounts, and later it turns out that family funds were spent on maintaining extramarital affairs. And others are, to put it mildly, unpleasantly surprised to find a sexually transmitted disease in themselves ...

Why is it so that the wife always finds out about everything last? Do all deceived wives just don't want to notice the obvious? But how can a wife not suspect that her husband has an affair on the side? Remember: you cannot afford to find out about the latest! There are many signs that betray treason. This is what you should look for if suspicions haunt.
1. Appearance. A man who has a connection on the side (or at least thinking about it) will make efforts to look more attractive. He will try to improve his appearance in at least some way. If you notice a change in his wardrobe, that he has become more attentive to his body and personal hygiene, you should be wary. These are usually the most noticeable signs of infidelity. As a rule (unfortunately!) A husband tries to look better not for his wife, but for someone else ...
2. How does he feel about you? If the husband has a different woman, this will inevitably change his attitude towards you, even on a subconscious level. Moreover, the attitude does not always change for the worse! Many, while changing, feel guilty and try to make amends for it with excessive attention to their spouse!
3. His work. They usually write off work for a long time spent outside the home. Men, starting a romance on the side, hide behind work, everyone knows this. It is one thing when your husband was always late at work, and there was no reason to suspect him. But if it was recently that he began to confer and (God forbid) go on business trips more and more often - think about it.
4. Daily habits. We are all slaves of habits. Everyone has a routine, more or less followed. In an unfaithful man, he will surely change.
5. Mistresses cost money. If your husband has one, most likely he will want to take her to dinner, entertain and give presents. No matter where he will withdraw the funds, the main thing is that sooner or later it will affect your family budget.
6. Mobile phone. Mistresses require constant communication, which can not do without phone calls. Most wives find out that husbands are not faithful to them, namely by mobile phone. Without exaggeration, you will get a 100 percent result by looking at the details of your husband’s calls; in this regard, the well-known detective agency HOMS has proven itself well to many. Detailing the mobile will show where and how often the husband called, to whom 101 SMS was sent, and on what “business trips” he actually was on account of roaming information. The main plus: the husband does not know that you are checking him.
7. The machine is one of the most important sources of information for suspicious wives. After all, he probably carries it in your car! The "evidence" can be found anywhere - under and between the seats, in the pockets, the "glove compartment", under the rugs ...
8. Any change in your sex life with your husband should alert. If you are sure that you are being cheated, the main thing is to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases and other STDs!
9. Eating habits. Their wives usually do not attach importance, but in vain. Changes in taste preferences can occur precisely under the influence of a lover. Without even realizing it, he can increasingly prefer the food she eats, the restaurants she loves.
10. Each person has his own unique smell, and you probably know the smell of your husband well. In close contact with a new person, the smell changes. And if you are careful, you will probably notice such a change.
11. Be especially vigilant when the time for holidays approaches. Some wives had to find gifts, prepared by no means for them, in the husband’s car and even at home. It is not surprising that money during this period can flow out of the family budget much faster than you expected.
12. Computer danger. Your husband’s excessive computer use can also be a danger signal. If he chatts for hours in ICQ, writes huge e-mails and does not crawl out of chats, then it is likely that the World Wide Web not only absorbed him, but also set the stage for serious enthusiasm. Do not take it easy! Such a “bond” can damage your marriage. Even if a husband and his Internet acquaintance are not connected by sexual relations, emotional attachment can become so enormous that it will entail a meeting in real life. Do everything to tear your husband from the computer if you feel that his many hours of “gatherings” are not connected at all with work.
13. Physical evidence. Sometimes they just wait to be found. Check his wallet, the pockets of his trousers and his jacket, the drawers in his desk, the garage ... Even his bin can become an important find, if, of course, you want to dig into it.
14. His relationship with other women. Remember that most often men change with those whom they know well - with neighbors, family friends, colleagues. If you suspect a husband of treason, first of all pay attention to his relationship with women you know. And do not think that acquaintances are not capable of it, because studies show that, unfortunately, this happens very often.
And remember the most important thing: before you rummage through your husband’s things, look at his phone calls, delve into an e-mail and arrange scenes, think that such a “strategy” is unlikely to improve your relationship and probably will not force your husband to give up his mistress (if he has one What if it all seems to you?) Consider what is more important for you - to find out the truth or keep the family. If the first place is true - try on the role of a detective. If the main thing is to preserve family relationships, then remember that they are in your hands! After all, the woman preserves the family hearth. It is you who must “renew” the relationship so that the husband, without having time to look at the side, immediately turns his attention to you. Master a new gourmet dish, change your hairstyle and buy erotic lingerie. Surely this will be followed not only by an unforgettable night, but also by the new quality of your relationship, which will not be slow to appear in everything ...
Elena Nikitina, Caravan of History
www.izmenniki.net

 

[Матушкин Андрей Николаевич]

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