How does the law of attraction of people and events in our lives?

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How does the law of attraction of people and events in our lives?


Despite the fact that the law of attraction, materializing our thoughts, is widely known, it is often forgotten. Why is this happening and how to make him serve himself? You will learn about all this in this article.


An interesting fact is known. When you work on something for a long time, even if unsuccessfully, strange things begin to happen. At a certain moment, the right people meet on their own, literally the necessary books, articles, notes and other information are strewed onto the head.


You can’t say exactly when this will begin to happen, but it happens absolutely always with every person. Mysterious forces of an unknown nature magnetize space, attract and create circumstances. This is how the law of attraction works. Everyone intuitively knows or guesses about him, but not everyone succeeds in putting him at their service. More often than not, we come to the conclusion that the only person who has led us to another dead end in life is the one we see in the reflection of the mirror.


The paradox is that we forget about the existence of this law with surprising constancy. Yes Yes! That's right - forget completely, as something inconsequential and unimportant. And even if we repeat to ourselves a hundred times a day that “thought is material” and hang signs with this inscription on the walls, there’s still something to distract us.


What are the reasons that make us forget about the law of attraction?

1. Troubles

Small, large, everyday, expected or often falling on us like snow on our heads. Even if we were just inspired by the magic of managing our lives by watching the movie The Secret, this will not give us peace of mind. The latter can easily be disturbed by an unpleasant call from work or by your own child, who made another hysteria. We instantly switch, we get angry, offended, raise our voices, forgetting that the mental radio station is still working, sending the truth to the air now are not the most positive impulses.


2. Expectations from yourself and others

“Hmm, I didn’t expect this from you! ..” we say and thereby divide the world into two parts: in one, pleasant, our expectations come true, and in the other, not very pleasant, no. And as soon as we find ourselves in the latter, then all the good disappears in an instant. Others seem inattentive, lazy, callous and even hostile, because they allowed ourselves to go beyond the framework that we have mentally drawn for them. By launching negative expectations, we literally force others to turn to us with an unflattering, shadowy side.


3. The environment

These are “good” friends, acquaintances, relatives and even relatives who will once again arrange another heart-to-heart conversation and carefully say “Yes, throw this out of your head!” Once such a fate, then there is nothing you can do ... "And we gratefully accept the advice, returning to a" normal "existence and stop emitting" wrong "thoughts about a better life. And we are not aware that such a "ejection from the head" turns into a real loss of opportunities that have just begun to attract us according to the same law.


4. Fleeting desire instead of intention

When we see a glass of water on the table in front of us that we are going to drink, we simply reach out and take it. Without any doubts. No "back" thoughts. We just do it and that’s it. This is how our intention works, which is “on a short foot” with the law of attraction. But if our conscious part interferes with this process, filled with various momentary desires and other “important” information, then everything becomes much more complicated. We can suddenly realize that there is not a simple glass on the table, but a sample made of rare crystal and valued at more than ten thousand dollars. Moreover, it is filled not with simple, but with healing and instantly rejuvenating water, which in nature exists in one single place on the planet. After these thoughts, the intention to simply take a glass and drink water from it will encounter great obstacles. And all of them will be attracted by the law of the same name.


5. Internal conflict

The previous paragraph revealed a particular example of what might be called an internal conflict. In addition to the inconsistency of desire and intention, a conflict can be between logic and intuition, consciousness and body, past and future. The latter is nothing but parental prescriptions and prohibitions from the past that cast doubt on the goals that we want to achieve in the future. When we send conflicting signals to the world, the result will be unpredictable, or not at all, since there is a protesting part inside us that causes interference.


Let's try to put all of the above together.


It turns out that getting the law of attraction to serve yourself is not so simple. There are a number of factors, both external and internal, that cause serious obstacles to the metaphysical process of materialization of thoughts.


How to resist this?

There is only one way out. If we want to control our thoughts, then only our conscious part will help us, which should be “loaded” with additional controlling functions. Namely, asking periodically questions to oneself. With the subsequent receipt of answers, of course. Let's go through the same five points described above.


1. Troubles

Is it really a big nuisance to be so upset?

From what bad did this unpleasant event save me?

Will I be able to take a break next time and react more gently to this?


2. Expectations from yourself and others

What, in my opinion, has violated such a serious behavior by another?

Do I always (myself) adhere to this principle?

What is more important besides this in our relations?


3. The environment

Is there a rational link in those doubts that others want to sow in me?

What are they trying to protect me from in this way?

What criticism of others can one agree with and what is not worth it?


4. Fleeting desire instead of intention

Do I really need what I want?

What is so terrible to happen if I do not get what I want?

What significance should my desire really take?


5. Internal conflict

What within me resists getting what I want?

Why can't I get what I want?

What arguments for can I cite for every objection identified?

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