What to do?

[Anonymous]

Before leaving, I licked the apartment. And there were no previous tenants.

 

[Игорь]

Eleanor call me in the afternoon.

 

[Anonymous]

Thank. I'll call you.

 

[Частный детектив. Мезрин. Севастополь.]

It is necessary to establish additional facts of betrayal (or meeting a husband with a female sex). Men in a fit of passion do a lot of stupid things. I think you are being cheated. Turn to a detective and everything will come to light.
Regards, Yuri.

 

[частный детектив Хмельницкий]

Oh !!!! Jura appeared !!!! ...... this is off topic !!!

 

[частный детектив Хмельницкий]

It is necessary to establish additional facts of betrayal (or meeting a husband with a female sex). Men in a fit of passion do a lot of stupid things. I think you are being cheated. Turn to a detective and everything will come to light.
Regards, Yuri.

It is impossible. in my opinion, to draw such sharp conclusions (human destinies are behind it) ...... but the detective will not hurt, you must contact

 

[Детективное агентство. Москва. Арбат.]

Colleagues have already said everything, there is nothing to add, most likely there was a fact of betrayal, and any detective will quickly help you understand this issue.

 

[Элен]

Hello eleanor
I am not a detective or a man (as you may have noticed), but I decided to take part in the discussion.
I am in some perplexity about everything that you wrote. You are not completely consistent and fully describe the situation. You write:

I am afraid of this conversation, we have two children. I’m afraid that by raising this topic, I will provoke him to leave, but I don’t want him to wipe his feet on me.

There is a logical contradiction (however, a typical feature of female thinking - here, unfortunately, men will not help!). Are you afraid to "break up" the family? Then do not raise this topic.
Read this: [DLMURL] https://www.izmen.net/art/1_23.php [/ DLMURL] Or something else. You may find the answer to your question. Talk with a friend, with mom - I don’t know who they usually talk to in such cases. Give an outlet to emotions.
You don’t want your feet to be wiped? Unfortunately, if there was a betrayal, if it was in your house and if your spouse reacted so casually to this incident (left evidence and did not even bother about where they subsequently went!), Then legs about you - alas! - already wiped.
It seems to me that you need to forget about emotions and reason coldly and sensibly (as men do). What surveillance will give you:
1. Confidence that you are not alone / It will not give anything (if it was one - the first and last meeting);
2. Exorbitant expenses;
3. Psychological discomfort (in the event that the “other” is still there)
And as a result? You still have to choose from two options - tertium non datur! - either live on, or diverge.
Two PS:
1. From your messages you can understand that the alleged betrayal occurred in your home, that is, where your family resides. And where were your children at the time of your departure? You write that you have two children.
2. If the fact itself (or the act? —Let the male detectives correct me) of the betrayal took place at home, then it may be worth contacting the neighbors and asking what they saw (or heard) and when.

 

[Детективное агентство. Украина. Харьков. Львов.]

Good Helen! Eleanor, listen to Helen

 

[@InfoPoisk]

Helen BRAVO. +10