In general, on the topic I want to give three very wise parables as an example:
"One old and very wise Chinese man told his friend:
“Look at the room in which we are better, and try to remember things in brown.” - There was a lot of brown in the room, and a friend quickly coped with this task. But the wise Chinese asked him the following question:
- Close your eyes and list all things ... blue! - A friend was bewildered and indignant: “I didn’t notice anything blue, because I only remembered things of a brown color at your order!”
To which the wise man answered him: “Open your eyes, look around - there are a lot of blue things in the room.” And that was the truth. Then the wise Chinese continued: “By this example, I wanted to show you the truth of life: if you look for things only brown in the room and only bad things in life, then you will see only them, notice them exclusively, and only they will be for you remember and participate in your life.
Remember: if you are looking for bad, you will certainly find it and you will never notice anything good.
Therefore, if you wait all your life and mentally prepare for the worst, then it will happen to you, you will never be disappointed in your fears and fears, but you will find new and new evidence for them all. But if you hope and prepare for the best, then you will not attract the bad into your life, but simply risk only occasionally being disappointed - life is impossible without disappointment.
Expecting the worst, you are missing out on all that is good that it really is. If you expect bad, then you get it. And vice versa. "You can acquire such strength of mind, thanks to which any stressful, critical situation in life will have positive aspects."
On this subject, I will propose a parable about the guardian angel!
"A man rides in a crowded bus, and thinks:
The heat of stuffiness, the head of misery, the wife is lazy, the car is constantly breaking down, money is constantly not enough,
children are not obedient.
And a guardian angel sits on his shoulder and writes everything verbatim in a notebook.
Heat, stuffiness, boss ..... And he himself thinks, And what does he constantly dream about some troubles, ??
but not what to do. Well, if he asks, you need to do it! "
It’s not for nothing they say. that our thoughts materialize!
When a person was still a child, his grandmother told him: “Granddaughter, you’ll grow up big, it will become bad for you - you go to the temple, it will always be easier for you there.” Man has grown. And he began to live somehow completely unbearable. He remembered the advice of his grandmother and went to the temple.
And here one parishioner comes up to him: “You don't hold your hands like that!” The second runs up: "Not standing there!" The third grumbles: "Not so dressed!" Rear joke: "Wrong baptized!"
And here comes one compassionate and advises:
- You would have left the temple, bought yourself a book about how you should behave here, then you would have come in!
A man came out of the temple, sat on a bench and wept bitterly. And suddenly he hears a voice:
- What are you, my child, crying?
The man raised his tearful face and saw Christ.
Says: - Lord! They’re not letting me into the temple!
Jesus hugged him: “Don’t cry, they don’t let me go there for a long time ...”
Moral: Yes, the church is an institution with its own set of rules, but its goal is to heal and purify souls. In the pursuit of formalities, many miss the point - not because they are so devout, but because it is visible to the naked eye. It’s hard for you, and you decided to visit the temple - not the only, but quite logical decision. Do not allow yourself to be distracted by those who literally have nothing to do in the temple. These people, unfortunately, have already lost the essence of faith. Save your ...
And about the fight against bad luck, I completely agree with the Private Investigator. Vladivostok. "Yesterday, 14: 36, george" Today, 07: 51, Andrey Zakharov "Today, 10: 19, Private detective Igor Eduardovich (Rīga Latvija)" Today, 17:55.
I always teach my guys and sons to get off the black line and go across it. Find a solution to the problem of going to the church and lighting candles for the health of your free and involuntary enemies, allocating money from your small funds to buy toys to the orphanage, help a real person who was injured, like in our city by an explosion. Do not be captive of your problems, but take “steps left and right and bounce in place.” Well, the salt restructures the water and, accordingly, our purification .Also, after watching a film about water, when the soul does not pronounce the words "love and gratitude" poorly, then the water molecules in us turn into a snowflake in beauty. And why prayers help. Scientists have found out that in all concessions prayers are said with frequency Earth’s magnetic field. Love life, nature, Mother Earth and let trouble pass you with bad luck. Respectfully Tatyana.