7 principles of good relationships

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Key points from the article "7 Characteristics of Good Relationships" on the Lifeoptimizer website:

Your relationship should be your top priority. In order for them to become stronger, some principles must be observed.

Here the term “relationship” is used in a broad sense. Why? Because these principles are universal. They are used for both romantic and business, and for friendships.

So here they are:

1. Readiness to give

One of the main problems in relationships is selfishness. It occurs when one of the parties only takes and gives nothing in return. A person who is not capable of self-sacrifice, focused only on obtaining his own benefit, turns into an egoist. The ability to give is the foundation of relationships.

2. Readiness to change

Ideal people do not exist, but everyone can strive to become better. In a healthy relationship, both sides are ready for change. They understand that they are imperfect and in some moments should change themselves, and not blame their partner. This makes the relationship stronger.

3. The ability to admit your mistakes

Do not be afraid to admit your mistakes. Together, it’s much easier to find a way to fix them.

4. The ability to listen

Learn to listen. This will help to understand the position of your partner. It is much easier to do this if you are ready for self-giving (point No. 1).

5. Mutual support

The law of reciprocity states that when we do good to others, they will also do good for us. We reap what we sow. By supporting each other, both sides in the relationship will get what they need.

6.Openness

Misunderstanding is one of the basic problems of relationships. That is why it is important that both sides are open to each other. If your partner has something that does not suit you, you should let him know. Of course, in a soft, delicate form.

7. Honesty

In a good relationship, both parties must act in accordance with what they think and say. Keep your promises, trust each other, and your relationship will become stronger.

Of course, all these principles must be respected by both sides. But you need to start with yourself, then you can build strong, reliable relationships.

To summarize, it turns out that we must:

1. Consider relationships as an opportunity to give
2. Be prepared for change
3. Be prepared to admit your mistakes
4. To be able to listen
5. Support a partner
6. Be open
7. Be honest

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[Матушкин Андрей Николаевич]

Thank!

 

[Симферополь]

Good psychological material for everyone. Briefly and capaciously. Thank!

 

[Орлан]

this will be relevant if your partner also adheres to these rules.
Thank you for the article.

 

[Детективное агентство Тула]

The Seven Commandments of Christ:
1) do not kill
2) do not commit adultery,
3) do not steal,
4) do not give false testimony
5) do not be fooled,
6) honor the father and mother,
7) love your neighbor as yourself.

 

[Плотников Юрий Михайлович]

Thank!

 

[Частный детектив. Панда. Краснодар.]

Thanks, interesting.

 

[Частный детектив. Timofey. Челябинск.]

informative thanks!

 

[Детективное агентство Одесса]

Helpful for a couple in a relationship!)