Spying on her husband. The choice of a detective agency.

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It’s hard at least once in your life to not want to spy on anyone. And it is not necessary for this to suffer from a persecution mania. Especially in our post-perestroika period, which is worthy of all respect, when Agatha Christie, Chase, Vargas and Clark moved on the book shelves. It means that everything is possible with them, but everything is impossible with us. You take and hire a real detective from them, who follows the track in the direction you need. And we have?

What about us? And now we have the same thing. There are detective agencies, there are private investigators. Everything is like people have. It remains to cross the soviet barrier of shyness and complexes in order to call one of such agencies and say in a well-posed voice of a self-confident woman: "Could you arrange surveillance of my husband?"

The main thing is not to bleat helplessly. Of course, no one will punish for this and will not even raise the price, just ... the girl should be proud. You will say how proud you are when your husband disappears for half a day, or even the whole, every weekend. Especially on Saturdays. He says to the office, but how do you prove it? Phones there do not answer on weekends, and the vile man’s cell phone is lying just like her husband. "I'm in the office, there is work. I kiss, do not be bored!" Just some kind of paranoia begins. Well, do not go to the office itself! Moreover, there, as a sin, there will be some kind of an abnormally responsible guard who will close the doorway with his chest and begin to demand xiv. No, don’t, pride still remained. And the money too. Therefore, let a private detective communicate with the guard, and then write a report on the work done.

In the capital, according to the most conservative estimates, more than five hundred detective agencies, and even private detectives, probably did not count. There are thousands of them. All have legal degrees, and some even have licenses for this type of training.

Determining which diplomas and licenses are fake is unrealistic. There are cases when they were acquired simply by amateurs who had read detective literature, and even by real crazy people who were sure that they were Niro Wolfe, Archie Goodwin and Adamberga.

Therefore, we conclude: it is still better to contact detective agencies. They have a license there on a wall in a frame and there are several employees, hardly all crazy.

Note that the secretary on the phone will not tell you anything, only will make an appointment with the detective. You will come exactly at the appointed time, pay 500 rubles through the cashier and start pouring the gloomy details of your family life to the detective. It’s better not to lie, because: a) an experienced detective can catch you in a lie and b) after you leave, you will learn more about you than you told him. And not only will he refuse to continue the relationship, he won’t return five hundred rubles either.

So, the truth and only the truth. You will tell the detective in detail about the Sunday absences of your spouse and ask them to organize surveillance for these couple of days.

And do not hope: the detective will not agree for less than five days. The motivation is this: to know the truth about the faithful, two days is not enough. And all your assurances that you are well aware of his whereabouts on weekdays will not impress the professional. At least five - a basta. Only in this case is he responsible for the result. And what is five days? This is one hundred dollars per hour plus contingencies.

The detective can offer another option: "listing". In this case, you get a printout of your spouse's location by his phone calls. Mobile and urban. It costs less, and the detective is calmer: the frantic race for the persecuted is good only in the movies.

All detective agencies guarantee complete anonymity and, in principle, keep their word, unless, of course, you foolishly entangle them in some kind of crime. For example, say you want to track your lover, and you yourself will choose to monitor your business competitor or any runaway convict who is life-threatening. We women are so unpredictable ...

Ninety women out of a hundred are able to lie professionally and artistically. Therefore, you can still fool even the most cunning detective. And he will even selflessly go hunting for your "false lover". Yes, but sooner or later he will understand that you have fooled him, and that his object has never been in bed with you. Here the detective can act at his discretion. Refuse to follow up and then give you a new account: business prosecution costs other money and is associated with a bunch of problems and dangers. And if it’s too late to refuse, and the detective hired by you is stuck, he will certainly call the trivial police to help. And here is your anonymity Khan. So we returned again to where we started: do not lie.

Well, the most important question of this paranoia is: why? Why all this - surveillance and printouts, money spent and spoiled nerves?

In 30% of cases when women turn to detectives, there is ordinary suspicion and jealousy. Although, if you ask a lady what she will do when she receives evidence of his infidelity, she will remain silent.

Because she herself does not know. Most likely, fight for your beloved body in the hope of victory. 50% of clients of detective agencies are more worried about jointly acquired property than for a replicated "husband's body." They do not want to share, therefore, do not want a divorce. And, having evidence of treason on hand, they will either want to scare her husband, or they will run to a lawyer for a consultation. Of course, only if the detective convinces them that this is not another affair, but something serious. And he will not be able to convince them, but only by providing recordings of conversations, love correspondence by e-mail and even evidence of his best husband’s friend, who often has a couple. All of the above costs, you know, more than a hundred dollars per hour. The remaining 20% of women passionately want a divorce, and a profitable divorce. And with the film, capturing the insidious traitor "in action", they have a lot of chances to remain a rich divorced lady.

Well, and finally, advice. When you decide to follow your husband, be vigilant. It makes no sense to look for a detective agency “cheaper”, because everyone has the same rates, and if you still find a “cheap one”, then no matter how he introduces himself to Archisha Goodwin or Mr. Holmes.

And one more thing: let’s say, for some inexplicable, purely intuitive reasons, you didn’t like the detective at the agency. Do not mess and go to another agency. Intuition is a little-studied thing, but verified by experience.

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[Матушкин Андрей Николаевич]

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