Violence in family

[@InfoPoisk]

Very often in practice you have to meet family issues. Most of them are the result of perfect violence. According to the accepted classification, domestic violence is divided into: physical, sexual, moral, economic.
Who faced these problems in practice, what did it end with and is it worth it to climb into people's family lives?

 

[DIBNN]

Never faced
we think so:
Physical - relatives and the Ministry of Internal Affairs
Sexual - definitely the Ministry of Internal Affairs
Moral - Psychologist
Economic - work and earn
I read that somewhere abroad there are services that specialize in issues of domestic violence.

 

[Адвокат]

You need to look at the situation.

 

[@InfoPoisk]

What does the situation have to do with it?
The issue of violence and working methods in this case, and the situation is already a consequence of the actions taken by the person (violent actions).
How to work, for whom to work, with whom to work, in what part to work? These are the questions that arise. Or, like the justices of the peace, we have toothlessness and work only on reconciliation; as investigators, not a desire to work because of the gravity of the evidence.
Who can guarantee that after reconciliation or refusal to initiate criminal proceedings, the villain will not repeat his actions again and again, referring to permissiveness, since he will have motivation: THE LAW IS NOT VIOLATED - MEAN MY ACTIONS ARE ALLOWED.
Someone wondered how many people can suffer because of one scum, how many old people do not live to the end of the allotted years, how many children suffer, and when they grow up, they begin to correspond with the actions of the parent.
Without preventing these actions, we ourselves “build” our relations in the future.
I understand that this topic is either not read, or do not know it if they read. But the worst thing is if they are silent having any experience, and it doesn’t matter if they are positive or negative. Any experience is valuable, one teaches how to do it right, the other teaches what not to do. : evil:: twisted::?:

 

[Детективное агентство Симферополь]

There is no experience, I can only judge: Sexual and physical are unequivocal for law enforcement officers, here, in my opinion, everything is clear.
But what to do with the economic and moral ... wait until the situation comes to the article "bringing to suicide" is naturally impossible, but by the law you won’t dig ... perhaps as an option - try to open up incriminating evidence to the offender of family peace.
It’s not obligatory on UD, it is necessary to identify its “weaknesses” in the object and put pressure on this direction, someone is afraid of publicizing something at work more than death, someone is something in his personal life, you can think up more and more ... but find this "sore" topic and put pressure on it. Knowing that if his violence continues, he will get a situation that is afraid of more fire and may refrain from previous actions ... yes, this is in some very literal sense blackmail, but not for the sake of life - for the sake of human life and harmony of the family - the cell of society.

 

[частный детектив Хмельницкий]

Very often in practice you have to meet family issues. Most of them are the result of perfect violence. According to the accepted classification, domestic violence is divided into: physical, sexual, moral, economic.
Who faced these problems in practice, what did it end with and is it worth it to climb into people's family lives?

I didn’t come across .... but the opinion is this: with all the tragedy of the similar, you cannot replace all the services that should solve these issues .... therefore, if you have an appeal to us as detectives, then you should consider the issue specifically and locally "climb or not climb" ..... the opinion is absolutely subjective ....

 

[Частный детектив. Владивосток.]

What does the situation have to do with it?
The issue of violence and working methods in this case, and the situation is already a consequence of the actions taken by the person (violent actions).
How to work, for whom to work, with whom to work, in what part to work? These are the questions that arise. Or, like the justices of the peace, we have toothlessness and work only on reconciliation; as investigators, not a desire to work because of the gravity of the evidence.
Who can guarantee that after reconciliation or refusal to initiate criminal proceedings, the villain will not repeat his actions again and again, referring to permissiveness, since he will have motivation: THE LAW IS NOT VIOLATED - MEAN MY ACTIONS ARE ALLOWED.
Someone wondered how many people can suffer because of one scum, how many old people do not live to the end of the allotted years, how many children suffer, and when they grow up, they begin to correspond with the actions of the parent.
Without preventing these actions, we ourselves “build” our relations in the future.
I understand that this topic is either not read, or do not know it if they read. But the worst thing is if they are silent having any experience, and it doesn’t matter if they are positive or negative. Any experience is valuable, one teaches how to do it right, the other teaches what not to do. : evil:: twisted::?:

There is no experience, I can only judge: Sexual and physical are unequivocal for law enforcement officers, here, in my opinion, everything is clear.
But what to do with the economic and moral ... wait until the situation comes to the article "bringing to suicide" is naturally impossible, but by the law you won’t dig ... perhaps as an option - try to open up incriminating evidence to the offender of family peace.
It’s not obligatory on UD, it is necessary to identify its “weaknesses” in the object and put pressure on this direction, someone is afraid of publicizing something at work more than death, someone is something in his personal life, you can think up more and more ... but find this "sore" topic and put pressure on it. Knowing that if his violence continues, he will get a situation that is afraid of more fire and may refrain from previous actions ... yes, this is in some very literal sense blackmail, but not for the sake of life - for the sake of human life and harmony of the family - the cell of society.

They read the topic ... And I read, but to write something specific - there were no thoughts about this ... But now the colleagues gave an impetus - I think I had a similar situation ... There was a lot of laughter at the Forum about that as I solved it, but nonetheless ...
I report:
Man, my "almost-in-law", a lover of drinking, chases my "almost-mother-in-law" by degrees - and it’s freezing outside, she sometimes spends the night with neighbors, and breaks furniture with appliances together, etc. We came to them on New Year's holidays, he got drunk, began to express all sorts of nasty things to me ... I do not pay attention, they left to ski. We come, mother-in-law on the street, this mu ... stands and yells. I dragged him into the house by the scruff of the neck, gave him a couple of cracks, tied him up, took a picture, then watered him with sleeping pills and put him to bed. In the morning I again put him in the scruff of the kitchen, show him the photos, say - something else like that - the photos will go to work. Until now, everything is in order in the village, pah, pah, pah ...
For him, job loss is all, krants! He works as a shift supervisor for the State Reserve facility, receives 29 thousand a month, and he is rich in the village.
So, what I’m leading to ... Maybe here I brought one of the options for solving such problems, not so dramatically, of course ... Although, somewhere you can work out the same way, depending on the situation ...
Yours faithfully,

 

[Детективное агентство Симферополь]

In my opinion, an excellent example from Vadim, there are still no other specific ones. “Weaknesses” are, in my opinion, the best option in cases like Vadim’s example! Well, what else could you do here ?! Either so - or fill your face (I apologize for the expression), but the face will heal and everything will happen again, and the photo at work is a weighty argument in this particular case!

 

[Адвокат]

the opinion is this: with all the tragedy of this kind, you cannot replace all the services that should solve these issues .... therefore, if you have an appeal to us as detectives, then you should consider the issue specifically and locally decide whether to "climb or not climb." .... opinion is absolutely subjective ....

I support the Help. That is what I had in mind.

A universal remedy for all ills does not exist. Each situation has its own solution.

Speaking of life examples. One woman turned to me for advice, who was constantly beaten by her husband. She suffered for several years, and after he damaged her spine, she asked for advice. She did not want to prosecute him, so the police did not say anything about the culprit of causing bodily harm.

He is a native of Central Asia, a former “Afghan” with a steady mental change, unmotivated outbursts of aggression, periodically abusing alcohol, not considering a woman to be a man, neglected his family, did not work, and did not even try to get a job - he was happy with everything, communicated with criminal individuals. When she was in the hospital, for several days he forgot to feed his children.

She has two young children (from marriage with him) who need to be fed, dressed, educated, and their salary is a little more than the subsistence level. She had neither physical strength, nor moral, nor finance, nor health to re-educate her husband, and he constantly mocked and beat her.

After weighing the pros and cons, we came to the conclusion that the only solution to the problem would be divorce, as it was impossible to change her husband in this situation.

After the divorce, the man remembered that he had children, began to visit them at least periodically, to communicate with them.

 

[Частный детектив Севастополь ОДБ]

In my opinion, this is more work for professional psychologists, and we can only advise what to do in a given situation