I beg for help

[Ольга---]

Please help with advice in this situation.

My mother (41 years old) is divorced and lives in her own private house with my younger brother (9 years old). The level of income is provided only by food and clothing, I would never have thought that money was paid for such "financially unattractive" as our family.
About a year ago, I learned about the existence of a certain Fedor, with whom my mother allegedly had a serious relationship and they were going to get married. At the same time, he lives in another city, sometimes comes to her, but no one saw him, that is, he did not want to get acquainted with future relatives. On the eve of New 2012, I came on vacation to my mother, and Fedor supposedly also had to come to meet New Year. But on December 31, a woman called her mother as her friend Fedor and said: supposedly Fedor was hit by a car on the street and he is in the emergency department in Kiev, she said the name of the hospital and the area where the accident happened (later we searched the Internet and didn’t correspond to her descriptions found). Fedor’s mobile was turned on, but did not answer. His girlfriend said that in his notebook the nurse found her (girlfriend's) first number, so they called her. She said that injuries are compatible with life, but the very stay in the ambulance center is very expensive, and said that she would take all the costs for herself. Mom was very eager to go to the knem, but this friend all the time discouraged her, did not give either the exact coordinates of the hospital, or the nurse's phone number, nothing - like she herself would stay with him, and she understands that her mother does not have available means. Only a week later, Fyodor wrote that he was better and that he misses his mother very much. Mom was in a very difficult moral condition, and she could hardly think logically at that moment. Since my mother is a very secretive person, only from my grandmother, who lives in the same city as my mother, I found out that my mother sold a house that she got from her grandmother, which we even forgot about, and all the money (about $ 6,000 .) gave it to a friend of Fedor, who specially came to another area to her mother.
I didn’t hear anything more about Fedor; my mother doesn’t share what happened with anyone. I only know from the story of my younger brother that he again came to see my mother (I think again, somehow, to pull money from her). I have great fears that Mom is under great influence, she does not want to hear either me, her daughter, or our grandmother - her mother. She considers us to be her enemies (we always had a wonderful relationship before), and completely trusts strangers. (another detail when Fyodor was supposedly in the hospital, they presented the situation in such a way that no one can help him except this girlfriend, his parents are supposedly very old and weak, and his son is serving in the army, in the other end of the country and he is not allowed to go to Later she found this guy’s page in social networks (matched the description - name, surname, date and place of birth). It was evident that he regularly visited his page, posted photos from any walks with beer and friends, not a single photo and mention that he served or is serving in the army, which is strange, as the guys who serve almost always put their photo in uniform, in some way mention the service in information about themselves). Thus, I believe that there is reason to believe that “a son in the army” is not true.
Now the main thing, I am very afraid for my mother and brother, since it may very well be that these scammers will still be pulling money out of her (we have another unfinished house). Mom doesn’t come in contact with me, doesn’t want to hear anything. And I understand that you can’t show anything to anyone, since she herself gave the money. But I really want to open her eyes (I'm afraid she is generally under some kind of hypnosis) and present evidence that these people are scammers. I am sure that my Mom is not their only victim.
The trouble is that I don’t know what to do in such cases.
I ask for your opinion from the outside and advice on what to do. The situation is actually serious.
If something is unclearly stated, ask.

 

[Москва Детектив]

Good day. I think the case is a classic, a DIVORCE. Mom can hardly be persuaded in this, therefore, in this case, radical measures are necessary in relation to "Fedor".

 

[частный детектив СПб Санкт- Петербург]

From the given conditions follows the composition of fraud. Unfortunately, every blacksmith of his own happiness (this applies to capable citizens). In the Russian Federation, it is unlikely that at your request you will be recognized as a victim in this case. A mother's statement is required. As I understand it, she is not ready to submit it.
In this case (in order to preserve the unfinished) you need to somehow become a partial owner of this housing, so that without your consent it would be impossible to conduct any transactions.
If not, then no.
Depending on the health of the mother, you can try to take custody of her. But it is not known to the end what kind of relationship you are. If there is complete order with her legal capacity, then this is a fatal number.
The only thing I see now is the need to appeal to law enforcement agencies with a statement in defense of the rights of a minor brother. Here, both the ATS and the Prosecutor's Office, it is also necessary to connect the guardianship authorities, municipalities (and all this under the sauce of protecting the rights of a minor).
By the way, it would not hurt to turn to a private detective. Gather information about these gentlemen. The amount of work is not very large. But the appearance of the results of his work in the audit materials would add objectivity to the arguments of your report on the crime.
Wish you luck. And remember two common truths:
"Each blacksmith of his own happiness" and "Good intentions ....."


Respectfully,
Alexey Trofimov

 

[Евгений СБ]

Normal divorce. The composition of the fraud will be extremely difficult to prove, but rather only theoretically possible. But you can try to find and recover.
And I completely agree with Alexei. It is necessary to enter the property owner into the "undeveloped" and other available real estate. Connecting at the same time all the government bodies listed by Alexei.
In war, all means are good.

 

[Бедеров Игорь Сергеевич]

Money, then even transferred, go without a receipt.
IMHO - to press Fedor and all their gang. Legally, I'm afraid it will be of little use.
And you can open your mother’s eyes quite real. It’s possible to collect evidence for mom!

 

[Частный детектив Донецк]

The only way out in this situation is to exert a psychological influence on Mom if she does not listen to anyone, and Fedor is a king and a god for her .... Try to agree with a psychologist, explain the situation, perhaps Fedor hypnotically influenced Mother. Definitely need to start with the head of the Mother.

 

[Ольга---]

Good day. I think the case is a classic, a DIVORCE. Mom can hardly be persuaded in this, therefore, in this case, radical measures are necessary in relation to "Fedor".

Explain which radical measures can be applied if I don’t know where it is located (presumably on the other side of the country), I only know the name, year of birth. I don’t know anything about accomplices.

 

[Ольга---]

Thanks to everyone for the advice. I really want to start acting somehow, but unfortunately, I am geographically far from my mother and do not have the opportunity to come often. but ready for anything, if only this nightmare would end.

 

[частный детектив СПб Санкт- Петербург]

Thanks to everyone for the advice. I really want to start acting somehow, but unfortunately, I am geographically far from my mother and do not have the opportunity to come often. but ready for anything, if only this nightmare would end.

Let's start.
Where are you?
Where is your mom located?
Where is the sold house located?
How was the money transferred?
Where is "Uncle Fedor" and his transmitter friend supposedly located?
Where is the "unfinished"?
Is mom on clinical records?


Respectfully,
Alexey Trofimov.

PS Well, about the lack of receipts ..... It has been worse.

 

[Ольга---]

Thanks to everyone for the advice. I really want to start acting somehow, but unfortunately, I am geographically far from my mother and do not have the opportunity to come often. but ready for anything, if only this nightmare would end.

Let's start.
Where are you?
Where is your mom located?
Where is the sold house located?
How was the money transferred?
Where is "Uncle Fedor" and his transmitter friend supposedly located?
Where is the "unfinished"?
Is mom on clinical records?


Respectfully,
Alexey Trofimov.

PS Well, about the lack of receipts ..... It has been worse.

I live in Odessa, my mother lives in the regional center of the Kirovograd region. (this is approximately in the middle between Kiev and Odessa). Fedor is supposedly located in Kiev or Kiev region. (Mom said that he has an apartment in Kiev - but the information, in my opinion, is unconfirmed and therefore doubtful). This girlfriend of his kind seems to be from Poltava (my mother used to mention), but again I’m absolutely not sure about that.
Honestly, specifically when, where and how the money was transferred, I do not know. I only know (and that from strangers) that my mother sold the house in January, at about the same time, Fyodor's girlfriend came to her (by the way with her husband). This was a brother's story. After I asked my mother over the phone whether it was true that she had sold the house, her reaction was inadequate. She hung up and did not talk to me for a month. (and indeed all attempts to start a conversation about that situation end the same way — she either hangs up or demands that no one interfere in her life). The fact that no one returned the money to her, I can judge by the fact that they and her brother are interrupted only at her cheap penny, and I sometimes help with what I can.
The house itself, as well as the unfinished house, are located in the same town where my mother lives.
At the expense of the state, I can say that my mother has two higher educations, worked for many years as a leader in the state. service, now works as an accountant. We never had any oddities, problems in communication, mother is an absolutely reasonable person (as she still believes that we are inventing everything). All troubles began after the appearance of this Fedor.