Alphonse, marriage con men, gigolo.
But there is experience ...
Good day to all! I never thought that I was so smart and fall for the scammer’s bait.
But, on the other hand, it’s an experience that I paid for ... in the literal sense.
My story is this:
Having broken her arm (a difficult fracture with an operation), while she was lying in the hospital, she climbed out onto a dating site - either boredom, or a desire to attract attention and make the man / s regret it.
She found it on her own head)) So, on the net he was “German”, 38 years old, without a photograph. A widower, raised a child alone (oh, what a nobility). He really wanted a family ... a daughter ... By this he bribed me, infrequently in our time a man knows what he wants ... Like, 10 years ago he had an accident, his wife left him and he doesn’t want a repeat ... What he needs a man who is ready to give, not just take.
Met in a cafe (I forgot to think about him - he called a month after the correspondence on the site), I'm with a cast on my hand. He came like this - you can see right away that the clothes are expensive - not right for you from the market or the media, they sat in a cafe, he turned out not to be German, but Vladimir Vladimirovich, like a cool “masked” businessman, here in Samara the branch is headed ...
He asked me for a long time - what I want from life ... Well, I feel - something is not right, but I can’t understand. I’m saying that I want to buy an apartment more - he immediately starts calling realtors he knows and he needs 2.5 thousand now — so that the person begins to draw up paper, the time is the 11th hour of the night, okay, she’s to blame herself - she gave the money, he’s here he also sent noodles to me that he would take me with him to Moscow for a couple of days ...
In the morning he disappeared ... the handset is off, and I don’t know any addresses or phone numbers anymore ... even his last name - so that if I can find out something ...
Then he surfaced ... about a day after 2. I told him - yes, you are a con! Who does this !!! What the heck? I have little money - on my own on sick leave, surgery + recovery - I need money everywhere - I will help you, but I need photocopies of my passport to make an apartment ... I did it, I gave it away, I kind of reassured ... I ask - what is your last name ? - he’s Korolenko ... I’m on the Internet - there’s nothing there ... Okay, then he “got sick” - such as temperature and stuff, I suggest you come (ah, I’m kind and sincere), but he don’t, I’m a friend here - I’ve written something about a friend whom the woman threw with the children and left him and he kind of pours his grief here ....
Then he calls again, asks for MONEY ON THE PHONE TO PUT !!!! yeah, I’m not sorry - 300 rubles ... oh, yes, he lied that his son is studying in Belgium .. and this is a lie ... as it turned out later ... The most important thing ahead is that he declares that he loves me directly, and she doesn’t want to let go, but I need to spend money with me at night - to rent an apartment - I went broke, for that matter, I didn’t sleep in rented huts ... he reassured ... he said that he would return everything - but I should go home to change for night club - it’s already funny, I gave him the money ... and he again ... was gone! Then again the noodles on my ears and other parties at my expense - he always has no money ... And constant reproaches - you don’t love me, you don’t trust me - but to the question - what did you do for me, you started right there - don’t raise this topic))))
Then there was a night call - like his friend crashed on the road, you need money, a lot and a lot (about 300 thousand), and I was already disappointed in his eternal - give money, I love you ... at the same time I didn’t give a flower ... in general, I did not begin to collect money, through my friends in the morning I found out - there were no accidents on the tracks and no one brought them to hospitals.
As a result, I don’t know why and for what purpose, but he gave me his driver’s license ... Vladimir Vladimirovich Frolenko, 1973 gr ... I'm on the Internet - I’m typing his data in the search bar - dear mother !!! he is a swindler near Moscow - he is being sought in Serpukhov, Chekhov and a bunch of other cities - he is a con man! Articles on the portals of these cities are dated May 2010, and he told me that he moved to Samara a year ago. He called, like he had left for Moscow on business - since then I have not called him and try not to forget such an expensive experience! still, of course, cynicism touches - I have a broken arm, and he told me about feelings and money)))))))))
He also asked about my girlfriends, but I no longer trusted him and said that there are no friends, but they are acquaintances. said nothing specifically.
What should I do now, right on hand:
1. Go to the authorities to give up with his rights, tell how it was?
2. Eject rights, erase all phone records?
3. Wait and hope that this is not true, because I could not stand it I told him that I found a lot of new things on the Internet - so he said that this was not true and he did not know where it was from there)))) !!!
4. why does he need my copies of the passport - "for the sake of" removed or what fraud can be turned? what should i expect? a bunch of loans in my name or what?
Advise!