Alphonse, marriage con men, gigolo.

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Alphonse, marriage swindlers, gigolo.

If earlier a man could not even think about taking money from a woman, today everything has changed: they, without a twinge of conscience, take money from their girls, women, wives. And some even turn it into a kind of "profession." They are called differently: marriage speculators, gigolos, gigolo ... But the goal of their activity is the same: to get as much money as possible from women in love with them and leave in English. How to protect yourself from Alphonse.
No matter how many times the media trumpeted that you don’t need to get involved with individuals who, after a few weeks, or even days of acquaintance, begin to pull money from their beloved, it is useless. Marriage scammers thrive by tricking more and more victims. What is the secret of their success? Everything is very simple. Russian women are not spoiled by the attention of our men: they rarely hear compliments from them, and at best they receive flowers as a gift only on March 8th.
Their life begins to revolve around work and everyday problems. And then, among all this grayness, he appears: a handsome (not even necessarily handsome) man who crumbles in compliments, makes nice gifts and arranges romantic surprises. And the woman’s heart is melting, and she’s ready for everything for this man. Marriage swindlers give women something that they so lack in life and what they dream of: love, affection, care and family. And women who have lost their heads from love do not understand that this is just an illusion of happiness, and the fairy tale will end very soon.
As a rule, marriage speculators are activated in the spring and summer. Indeed, at this time, when nature wakes up, birds are singing around and the sun is shining, I really want to fall in love. However, this does not mean that in winter you are safe from these heroes-lovers. Women are hunted year-round, so you should never lose your vigilance.
First of all, you should be wary of wealthy unmarried ladies. They are a real tidbit for any marriage crook. These women, who have devoted themselves to a career and have forgotten about their personal lives, are easily amenable to the charms of a new acquaintance, especially if they are attractive in appearance. It would seem that women who have achieved success in work and have earned good money should understand people and not succumb to the influence of these scammers. However, practice proves the opposite. They famously dust the brains of ladies, receive expensive gifts from them, begin to dress well, fly abroad. And when they find a new, more generous companion, they disappear safely.
What can we say about rich victims, even if not the richest women become victims of scams, giving them the latest money and savings. How many cases are already known when women, having listened to their beloved's tales, took loans and even sold apartments to help their beloved one.
What do they take? Why are women ready to give them everything, believing in all their stories? First of all, we note that not everyone can become a marriage swindler who deceives women right and left. They may not have the appearance of Brad Pete, but they have an endless sea of charm and charisma, they can charm almost anyone, which they use for their dirty purposes. They literally jump out of their pants, trying to charm and fall in love with a woman as much as possible. They do not bypass their immediate environment: children, relatives, friends. Everyone around must understand how much he loves her and that there is no question of any self-interest.
They may not even make much effort. They act on women in some magical way: the victims themselves want to caress him, bring him home, to court and always be around.
Single ladies over 35 are especially affected by marriage scams. Over the years, women become more sentimental, and the demands on men are underestimated. They understand that they are at an age when not having a family or even a man is simply indecent, and cling to almost every man, thinking that here she is, love. But the scammers only need this, and they are actively fueling the myth of love.
However, you should not think that only women aged with an unsettled personal life can become victims. A young attractive girl can also fall onto the crook’s hook. It’s even easier to deceive her: she, spoiled by male attention, doesn’t even think that someone might be interested in her money, car and apartment, and not herself.
There are not so many fairy tales used by scammers to deceive money. And they change depending on what kind of image they tried on themselves:
Poor romantic. As a rule, this is a young handsome guy who managed to convince a lady of Balzac age in his infinite and disinterested love. He will tenderly and reverently look after, look into his eyes and endlessly talk about love. In a word, he will try to do everything so that you believe in his love and fall in love yourself.
When the swindler feels that the woman is already on the hook and is deeply in love, he begins to act: first he will walk with a tragic expression on his face, when the victim asks, what’s the matter, he will tell a heart-breaking story, say, about a sick mother, whom an operation is urgently needed, but he does not know where to get the money for it. A selfless and loving Russian woman will certainly offer her help and will do everything to help her lover. When he receives the money, he will disappear from her life and go in search of a new rich victim.
Businessman. He has excellent looks and behavior. He has excellent manners and speech. Such a con man skillfully splurges and is able to convince the victim of his security and high social status. In his posh apartment, of course, repairs are underway, and therefore he cannot invite you there yet. And the car broke down spitefully and is in service. Then he must begin some kind of problems in the “business” and a monologue like “Honey, I’m urgently needed money now, please lend me a week, I will receive a transfer for a major transaction, and I will return it to you in full.” Usually the victims are “being” and do not see the catch, and then, with tears in their eyes, they are calculating their expenses for the “businessman”.
A real man. This is a brutal serious man, when you look at which you won’t even think that he can profit from women. However, this is so. As a rule, he appears to be a military man, sprinkling army tales and stories. This is a real man, which most women dream of: strong, serious, homely and skillful. However, this is just a mask. In fact, this is an ordinary swindler, who will either slowly pull money out of you until he goes over to a better-off woman, or he will immediately ask for money "in debt" and evaporate.
You can meet a marriage con man anywhere, but in especially large numbers they live on the Internet on dating sites, as well as in various resorts where women are relaxed and do not mind making an affair with anyone.
The Internet, which is full of dating sites, is the most fertile ground for the activities of a marriage speculator. There are many profiles of single women over 35 who, due to lack of time or for other reasons, decided to find a life partner through the Internet. And then he appears, the man of their dreams: educated, gallant, scattering in compliments and thirsting for love, family and children. With the ease of flattering the brains of a lady on the Internet, he tries to fall in love with her at a meeting, which he does very well.
The Internet for scammers is also good because you can simultaneously correspond with many women, sending them template messages with declarations of love. Someone will definitely bite.
In addition, the scammer can find out a lot of useful information about the victim on the Internet on her page on the social network: her preferences in music, cinema, etc. And at a meeting, success is guaranteed to him when he accidentally begins to talk about his preferences, which, of course, will coincide with what the victim loves.
In resorts, the activity of gigolos reached simply gigantic proportions. Residents of Egypt and Turkey are especially famous for their love of female money. They take with their extraordinary pressure, endless compliments, and after a week of dating they are ready to marry their new passion. And strangely enough, a lot of Russians are led to their fiery speeches, and rush into the pool of "love" with their heads. Of course, the romance of the place plays an important role here: the sea, palm trees, the sun ...
Well, how not to fall in love with a guy who seems ready for anything for you. At the end of the vacation, he is ready to move to his lover, and then begins to shower her with letters asking them to send money for an operation, then for a ticket, or something else. Or they start pulling money out of a woman during her vacation. Or they will simply simply steal money when, for example, a woman is sleeping, and will disappear forever.
In fact, it’s easy to figure out a marriage speculator. That's just the ladies, blinded by love, do not want to notice obvious things, and pay for it from their own pockets. So, you need to beware in case the man:
- very persistent, from the very first meeting she tries to reduce the distance as quickly as possible;
- for a long time gives a minimum of information about itself: it does not provide a home phone number, address, practically does not tell anything about its life;
- periodically disappears for several days under far-fetched pretexts;
- in a short time after meeting, he begins to ask for money in debt.
And a few more tips on how to protect yourself from gigolos at the resort:
- do not take very expensive and valuable things and jewelry with you on a trip;
- Do not keep a large amount of money with you or in a hotel room;
- do not accept any valuable gifts: firstly, they can be stolen, and secondly, make it dependent on the donor;
- All marriage swindlers are afraid to act in film. Invite him to take a picture or make a video, and watch the reaction;
- in no case lend money to new friends.
We hope you never in your life have to deal with marital swindlers. Good luck Based on materials from Ukraine Criminal

 

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Alphonse, marriage swindlers, gigolo.

This is a very specific, but very dangerous variety of scammers specializing in single women and girls who dream of love and marriage. The practice of the police shows that from year to year the activation of this category of crooks invariably falls at the end of spring and summer, and the decline in activation begins with the onset of cold weather.
Are they hibernating?
No, of course, scammers go fishing and hunting for gullible “juliet” year-round and in any weather, but in spring and summer the female soul is softer, nature blossoms and everything awaits love, so “working” is a little easier. And it is more convenient to make acquaintances, for example, on vacation, on the beach or in an outdoor cafe.
Having lost her head from the flood of passion, a woman trusts her “long-awaited and unique”, and he, ungrateful, then suddenly disappears: purely in English, without saying goodbye and leaving no phone or address. But taking away for good long memory all the valuable things and money from the apartment.
A shock not conveyed by words! After this, some even find themselves cured in psychiatric clinics, and recovery takes place with considerable difficulties.
People often ask: where do fraudsters usually get to know their victims? Yes, wherever you can think of, and even where you can’t, this audience is surprisingly inventive in making money and the pleasures that accompany it. There was a case when a con man managed to get acquainted with the “bride” in ... a women's toilet! Therefore, it is impossible to answer unequivocally, there are any number of tricks and methods of acquaintance with marriage scams, and they can be found in vehicles, shops, on the playground and even in the ... cemetery!
Who do they introduce themselves to win over a potential victim? As a rule, there were always more “romantic” professions in use - sea captains, military doctors, pilots, and the like. Women often “peck” on a form. They are also attracted by mystery and mystery, which is why many crooks serve in “intelligence”, work as “chief designers” of closed design bureaus, “perform special tasks of the president” and so on. It all depends on the level of their criminal qualifications and training and the individual characteristics of the victim.
Usually swindlers are excellent psychologists and no worse than gypsy fortune-tellers cleverly find out everything about a woman who met them. And they do it very quickly and invisibly for an inexperienced victim. They know how to instantly attract them, and sometimes it is simply impossible for a woman to resist the temptation.
And the legends and various heart-rending stories and all kinds of oaths and confessions from the marriage swindler are not that a bag or a wagon - whole trains and cargo sea ferries. He lives it!
At the first stage, it is important for a con man to win over a lady, gain her trust and find out, at least approximately, her financial situation. If finances sing romances there, usually the swindler evaporates: he needs money, and sex is only a means to get it, and if a woman is attractive, then a pleasant addition and fun at work. Nobody has ever succeeded in re-educating such types and making exemplary husbands of them. Therefore, do not try.
Collapse is inevitable, and it will be extremely painful. This has long been tested in practice, and there is no need to flatter yourself with the hope that others have failed, and you will certainly succeed. Will not succeed!
It is also necessary to take into account that individual “instances” from this cohort of fraudsters possess hypnotic-extrasensory abilities and use them to the utmost to process the victim. This is the most dangerous category of scammers.
At the second stage, the marriage swindler must certainly get to the victim in the house. And not only to come to visit - he needs to move there for a while, lull the woman’s vigilance and, having gathered her to the skin, disappear without a trace. Swindlers are declared, as a rule, very far from the place where they last “married”, remembering the proverb that God preserves and is safe. Meeting with the former narrowed them completely to nothing.
Naturally, a well-crafted victim who already sees nothing and does not want to hear, who lives already completely under the influence and at the direction of his “chosen one”, will remain deaf to any advice on how to avoid temptation, preserve your nerves, things and health. This is exactly what the con man is trying hard to achieve.
Therefore, we turn our recommendations to the relatives and friends of the ladies who are not indifferent to her fate. Relatives and friends are simply obliged to be vigilant and try to somehow check the unknown “pilot”, “sailor” or “scout” who, with the same success, can be “general”, “surgeon”, “engineer”, “veterinarian” ”And in general by anyone, but not by those who they claim to be!
Any person in our country has at least some documents - try to look at them under a plausible excuse or even secretly: whose name they are written out by, by whom, when and so on. You can apply in person or in writing to the institution that issued the document with a request, and you must answer. They are required by law.
It is best to get a passport of a new friend of your relative or girlfriend. Marital status and the stamp on marriage registration does not mean anything: everything happens in life, and people leave the family in the hope of finding new happiness in life. But there is a registration in the passport! It should interest you, and it is worth checking whether such a person is listed there or not, what he is and generally, whether they issued in the internal affairs body of that city - usually all marital swindlers from other cities - a passport in the name of that person. Suddenly the document is generally fake?
If you can’t get the documents and get acquainted with them, find a friend of the policeman, bring him to visit a relative or girlfriend: certainly in uniform and unexpectedly. Let him under a plausible pretext - the cops know how to do this - require everyone to present documents. That is all! You can ask the local inspector to do this: in the common people “near-station”. Tom also does not need swindlers in the territory, otherwise they will turn out to be terrorists!
Usually, after the appearance of the police, the con man loses his peace and prefers to quietly “shed,” but experienced professionals with reliable sets of documents sometimes remain. Then try to check his “profession” by inviting a real professional in the area in which an acquaintance of your relative or girlfriend supposedly specializes.
Still very good, as professional detectives involved in catching fraudsters say, “pump over to geography” - find a person who has been to the city where your suspect is “born” and everything can be resolved very quickly if he does not even know what is flowing there the river and is there a railway bridge through it!
The practice of endless questioning justifies itself - they will simply point you to the door for importunity, and this is an alarming symptom: a swindler, like a spy, is afraid to pierce on the discrepancy of details, he does not remember what he said yesterday! Good results are given by the story of the “very rich bride”, as well as the tossing of money “dolls” and fake jewelry. But the ghost of danger from the police nevertheless acts most surely on the swindler - they really do not like to move to the bunk!
In general, try to avoid the temptation to succumb to the charms of the first man he meets, even if he is a “general” or “astronaut”.
Dmitry Znamensky.

 

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The black list of marriage speculators

Even in our cynical and tough times, many people dream of bright and pure love. Women dream of a beautiful prince, rich, like Abramovich, and gallant, like a medieval knight. Men are about a tender beauty, ready to endure dirty socks under the bed and beer gatherings with friends. But a gullible, lonely heart can easily fall into the network of a marriage swindler or swindler.
Fake General
This story is still well remembered in the Petrozavodsk linear department of internal affairs in transport, although it happened a few years ago. On a train that was traveling along the Murmansk-Moscow route, law enforcement officers drew attention to a prominent man in the form of a lieutenant general in the Airborne Troops. Police officers were surprised that the passenger of such a high status was traveling not in the SV carriage, but in an ordinary compartment. Moreover, for the general, the man looked too young. The documents presented to the military also did not inspire confidence. As a result of the audit, it turned out that in the database of the General Staff of Russia the general with such a surname does not appear. Moreover, the passenger turned out to be a citizen of Moldova and at the same time was still on the wanted list on suspicion of committing fraud on the territory of Belarus.
The fake general was arrested and placed for two months in a pre-trial detention center in Petrozavodsk. He needed a masquerade in order to captivate women. Petrozavodsk investigators were able to establish that in Moscow a swindler started novels simultaneously with four wealthy ladies. He not only lived off gullible women, but also managed with their free and involuntary help to scroll through his unseemly affairs. For example, one of the passions lent Alphonse a foreign car, which became part of the image of a "solid gentleman". When a lady who is bored in a traffic jam playfully “beeps” from an adjacent luxury car an imposing man, it’s hard to resist. And so they made new acquaintances.
Another lover, who has connections in high-ranking circles, ordered for the swindler a general uniform in the studio of the General Staff. The third friend at one time served in the peacekeeping forces in Yugoslavia. She has preserved many photographs of the time. <General>, under some pretext, asked for these pictures and, on occasion, showed another grateful listener, telling fables about the service in hot spots and fighting friends. Still a swindler liked to act in uniform against the backdrop of military parades and did not even shy from a photo montage. In a word, the legend was thought out to the smallest detail.
It is possible that not only Muscovites suffered from the actions of the fraudster. During his arrest, a notebook was found with many telephone numbers registered in different cities of Russia. It is curious that almost exclusively male names were listed in it. Obviously, the "general" was afraid that his many beloved would find out about each other, and came up with a simple encryption: Olga was written under the code name Oleg, Anna <was turned> into Anatolia, and so on.
The material damage that the swindler inflicted on his victims was calculated in significant amounts, reaching several thousand dollars. Investigators "general" claimed that he was just trying to help his family living in Moldova. In his homeland, he really left a spouse and children. Be that as it may, the Russian law enforcement authorities had to stop the criminal case against Alfons. He failed to prove that he deceived the money from women. In addition, the "general" vowed to compensate the victims for damage. True, it is doubtful that he did this: a swindler was deported from Russia to Belarus, where he was eagerly awaited by the local law enforcement officers. Hopefully, in the neighboring country, he got what he deserved.
Black List of Grooms
What biographies modern <great combinators> do not invent themselves: One of the swindlers, detained in the North Caucasus, presented himself as the brother of the Minister of Internal Affairs of Russia. Before the self-styled "relative" was exposed, he managed to stretch a total of 150 thousand rubles from two women.
With the advent of the global Web, the possibilities of fraudsters of all stripes, including marital swindlers, have truly expanded to planetary proportions. There is nothing simpler than confusing a poor woman with e-mail. But at the same time, ladies can use the Internet to learn from the mistakes of others. Recently, special sites have appeared on the Web that tell in detail about how not to fall into the trap of a mercantile womanizer. For example, the portal www.antidate.org publishes a blacklist of suitors from around the world with names, surnames and photographs of those who should beware. Most of them have already deceived more than a dozen women. The pictures are accompanied by impressive characteristics such as: <Marriage swindler, promises to marry, buy an apartment for two and lures big money under any pretext, promises golden mountains. Obsessive, impatient, lying in the eye, not blushing, apparently possesses hypnosis>. In addition, victims of fraudsters share their sad stories. Here are some of them.
Cheating patterns are often similar. The con man seems, of course, a successful person, but laments loneliness and despair. This is followed by beautiful confessions, gentle words, Spanish passions, interspersed with appeals: <Darling, well, when will we finally meet?> However, for suddenly arising <objective> reasons, the meeting is constantly postponed.
When the fraudster feels that the client is ripe, he sends a "tragic" letter. For example, this: a best friend or relative suddenly got into trouble. Urgently need money. “It’s not a problem for me to find the right amount,” the deceiver usually assures, “but I am now on a business trip to Australia (Africa, New Zealand, anywhere, if only out of reach). A transfer from the bank will be available only in a week, and the money is needed urgently. My heart bleeds, I do not want to live from hopelessness. I am ready for anyone who can help with this amount, add zero to it and return> etc. etc. With such "cries of the soul" the swindler persistently throws his victim, and as a result many women do not withstand the psychological attack. After the lady sends a money transfer to the specified address, <lover> forever disappears from the horizon.
One must also be vigilant with foreign suitors. Among them, to put it mildly, dishonorable citizens. Such a gigolo can offer a woman to come for a full-time acquaintance in Paris or at a fashionable resort. Say, I take all the expenses on myself, you just find money for a visa and a ticket to your destination. But at the hotel, it turns out that the gentleman was "stuck" with a credit card. The situation is unpleasant, but fixable, says the swindler. And he offers the lady to pay for the accommodation on the condition that in a couple of days he will return the full amount to her. A romantic vacation for two takes place like in a fairy tale: coffee in bed, a sumptuous dinner and expensive champagne in the room: Meanwhile, problems with a credit card continue until the gentleman collects things secretly and disappears in an unknown direction. It’s good if, after such a rest, a woman has money left for her way home.
In fairness, it should be noted that men also suffer from marriage speculators. A certain lady from Chelyabinsk, along with her friend, deceived as many as 15 grooms from abroad. Fraudsters have opened a pseudo dating bureau on the Web. The false bride corresponded with several men at once, and each begged for money for a visa, passport and tickets. Naive foreigners sent the girl quite large amounts, from 400 to 4 thousand dollars. The activity of the <bureau of acquaintances> ended when one of the cheated suitors came to Russia from Canada in order to find the missing bride, and turned to the police for help.

 

[Anonymous]

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[Матушкин Андрей Николаевич]

Hello Svetlana. I read your message with interest. I recommend registering on the forum. I think you will be an interesting conversationalist on this resource.

 

[Anonymous]

Hello, Lawyer!
What a pity that I did not find your articles before ... I was a victim of one of you listed types of machinists. Fortunately, I did not have time to give him a large amount of money .. the instinct of self-preservation chtoli worked ... I started digging .... and digging ...
As you described. I found it myself on the Internet ... everything quickly spun ... charmed, fell in love ..... told everything about myself (as it turned out later - the truth) ... called up a hundred times a day ... very thin and strong psychologist ... first the problems started at work, then with the prosecutor's office ... I didn’t peck at all this ... well, rather, I didn’t intend ... the man thought, he’ll figure it out ... but he didn’t ask for money ... He said that he would figure it out ..... but then he suddenly “fell ill” .. with an incurable disease that leads to disability ... but you can do an operation that can stop, or possibly cure, this disease and of course you need a lot of money. .... and I was going to give them to him ... I managed to give them only for the "medicine" ..... the guy prepared thoroughly .... he studied the whole disease thoroughly ...... my life experience helped ... too often men offended ... and there was a great mistrust of them ... and in this case, no matter how I fell in love ... but I couldn’t absolutely trust this man ... I didn’t hide my mistrust. .took his passport data (they turned out to be real) and began to check everything that she could ... The case is unique of course ... it seems that the person worked not alone, but as a group ... as she talked with his "mother" and " sister ... relatives .. and then stopped calling ... after some time I found him other profiles on the Internet with other names .. and met his other victims .... also no one contacted the police ....
But in this whole story it was insulting not because of the money ... but because this man played hard on his feelings ... and it doesn’t fit my head that the one in whom I saw my dream man turned out to be a swindler .. and now I understand that the men of my dreams simply do not exist in nature !!! And in every man I now see a swindler and suspect something. I never thought that this could happen to me!
I hope that my story will help at least one woman not to get into a similar situation and become a victim of a scoundrel!
Lovely girls, women, a real man will never devote you to his problems, unless he is your husband or brother, and never asks you for money to solve these problems, and never takes yours, even if you offer them. So if you are faced with a man who asks you for money or brings the situation so that you yourself offer them, think ... do you need such a man and does he have the right to call them!
I wish you all to never fall for the bait of such a villain and meet your real man your dreams

 

[ДНК]

Bravo ... you still had to put a photo of this freak here. his passport data and links to sites where he sticks out ... maybe someone else will help ....

 

[Матушкин Андрей Николаевич]

Strongly agree with Dmitry!

 

[Anonymous]

I’m afraid ... then I don’t want to live my whole life looking around, waiting for me to be “slapped” ...

 

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t go to sites right now, but perhaps he will resume his activity somewhere in half a year ..
On dating sites (mamba.ru and love.meil.ru) Alexander Karetny, 38 years old, Chelyabinsk. In meil.ru - the same Karetny and Zhenya Kappone, 34 years old, Chelyabinsk. In the photo in sunglasses. His real name is Eugene Naumets, 34 years old, Chelyabinsk. Strong, handsome, with a large number of large tattoos on the body (on the left side of the abdomen, a dragon). He appears to be the director of a construction company, which he really is not. He says that he is single ... he is actually married, has a little daughter, but he represents her as his niece, and I suspect that his wife is for his sister .. Although ... maybe next time it will be a completely different story ... He will constantly try to meet with you, but every time there will be some problems that will interfere with the meeting.
Hope this information helps.